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Put the Blame Where It Belongs: On Men Violence We are raising generations of boys in a society that in many
ways glorifies sexually aggressive masculinity.
By JACKSON KATZ, SUT JHALLY Los Angeles Times
The outrage in Central Park on Puerto Rican Day
shocked
and horrified not just New Yorkers but people everywhere. In its wake,
the media have rushed to find an explanation, focusing on the "crowd"
or "mob" psychology and the lack of a timely police response. These
are important, but there is a far more central aspect that has remained largely
unexamined: that men attacked and abused women. Seemingly "normal"
men, perhaps fueled by alcohol, acted out publicly against women in an
incredibly hostile and aggressive fashion. The time is long overdue for us to
have a national conversation about the way our culture teaches boys and
men--across class, race and ethnic distinctions--to think about and act toward
women. While this incident rightly shocked and angered a lot of people, and has
caused women in New York and elsewhere to be even more vigilant about their
personal safety, the most shocking aspect is how long this kind of thing has
been going on with so little public response.
We are raising generations of boys in a society
that in many ways glorifies sexually aggressive masculinity and considers as
normal the degradation and objectification of women. Consider: Misogynistic
music and videos, the sexual bullying by entertainers such as Howard Stern, the
growing presence of pornography and female stripping in mainstream culture and
the crude displays of male dominance in professional wrestling.
To demonstrate how deeply imbued our society is
with the attitudes that stem from this acculturation--i.e. how
"normal" the Central Park perpetrators were--imagine what the response
might have been if, instead of a group of men assaulting women, the Central Park
event had consisted of a group of white people targeting and attacking people of
color. Wouldn't the media discussion have focused on racism as the proximate
cause of the attacks rather than on the "mob mentality"? And would we
be searching for sociobiological explanations for antisocial behavior? No, we
would focus, rightly, on the persistent problem of racism in America and on the
need to teach our (white) children to respect and embrace racial and ethnic
diversity. Or consider if the genders had been reversed in the Central Park
attack. Media discussion would have zeroed in on what was going on with the
female gender that caused some women to act out in this way. Yet when a group of
men target and attack women, the "experts" talk about crowd
psychology, marginalizing the discussion of the societal sexism that fuels sex
crimes. This "degendering" of the discourse around male violence is
not unique to the Central Park fracas. In recent years, there have been
thousands of news stories, television specials and town meeting discussions of
"youth violence," which is perpetrated overwhelmingly not by youths of
both sexes but by adolescent males.
Last summer, Woodstock '99 featured several
rapes and countless sexual assaults by men against women. The festival concluded
with a shameful display of wanton destruction by out-of-control males. And yet
the discussion afterward blamed it on the "crowd." More recently, when
groups of men went on a rampage after the NBA victory of the Los Angeles Lakers,
the media focused in again on a "mob" out of control. One explanation
for the reluctance of the media to make these obvious connections is that the
few brave souls who dare speak the truth--especially if they are women--run the
risk of developing undeserved reputations as male-bashers, which can hurt their
careers. Therefore it is the special responsibility of men to speak out.
Fortunately, there are signs that the tide is slowly turning. High schools and
colleges are paying more attention to the need for gender-violence prevention
education with young men. Recently at the United Nations, there was an
international panel discussion of men talking about ways that boys and men could
help prevent domestic and sexual violence. In Namibia earlier this year, there
was a first-ever national conference of men that was devoted to this subject.
For the past decade, men in Canada have run campaigns in which men wear white
ribbons to symbolize their refusal to be silent in the face of other men's
violence. These are small but significant steps toward creating a society and a
world where the crowd of men who are outraged by gender violence overwhelms the
crowd that commits such violence.
Jackson
Katz, Who Directs the U.s. Marine Corps Gender Violence Prevention Program, and
Sut Jhally, a Professor of Communication at the University of
Massachusetts-amherst, Are Creator and Director, Respectively, of the Film
"Tough Guise: Violence, Media, and the Crisis in Masculinity." Copyright 2000 Los Angeles Times |
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